It is YOU! Let me tell you how because you are responsible for your life, that is what you can do and just see what you can control. you yourself are not being compassionate yourself and not listening to yourself, not forgiving yourself, not fulfilling your expectations, not respecting yourself, I mean what all your complaints…

Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day but teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime. As Martin Luther King Jr. observed, “The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.”